Did you know blind-folds are exciting? Seriously. I’m not talking about bondage, ropes, or S&M (though I’m sure that’s also pretty exciting). I’m simply saying that a basic blind fold made from an old handkerchief can stimulate strong sexual desire and lead to loads of sexual satisfaction. With covered eyes, a person is forced to [...]
How does a modern woman put a bun in her oven? Dear Dr. Sonjia, I have a thought for a new topic. How about: ‘how to get pregnant?’ I mean, not exactly HOW, but, if someone were trying to have a baby, what would increase their chances of getting pregnant? I can’t remember high school [...]
What’s the ultimate gift for the love of your life? Sex everyday for a year. That’s what Charla Muller gave her husband when he turned 40 and she claims the ‘gift’ rekindled intimacy in her marriage. In her book, 365 Nights, Charla admits that it wasn’t always fun or easy, but she stuck to her [...]
What awkward questions are you craving to ask your lover? Most people can’t talk about sex without blushing —even with the person they’re having sex with. And sexual pleasure tops the list of taboo topics. Aside from eating and sleeping, sex behaviors influence life more profoundly than any other human activity. Whether you’re having sex [...]
What happens when the condom breaks? Or when the ‘pull-out’ wasn’t pulled out in time? “I start dreaming of menstrual cycles,” said a handsome South Beach business owner. “It’s a tricky situation because the woman has total control over what happens next. She might ask for my opinion, but there really is no right answer [...]
What’s so special about lesbian sex? I’ve watched more than my share of the L word, have lots of gay friends, and something about my aura inspires intimate invitations from women on a regular basis. I’ve provided sex education to female couples looking to spice up their love life, and thanks to my husband’s savvy [...]
Do you know someone who needs some nooky? “The administrator at my job!” exclaimed a doctor in downtown Miami. “She does everything she can to make others miserable. She turns small issues into big problems and nobody likes her. We know she’s so cranky because she hasn’t had sex in such a long time!” Apparently, [...]
What’s width got to do with it? “I hear and read a lot of women saying thickness is more important than length. As a guy with a thinner than average penis, I feel I may be less satisfying than thicker men. Would you be able to write about that topic?” Well of course, dear. And [...]
Should people pass a test before getting busy? In many ways, sex is like driving a car. It can be fun, exciting, and dangerous – all at the same time. Like a bad driver, sex can also be frustrating and nerve-wracking. And similar to a traffic jam, boring sex is unfulfilling and feels like a [...]
Does splitting up make sex better? When’s the last time you wanted to see, feel, or kiss your lover, but was unable to, due to distance or circumstances? Try to remember when you really wanted to be with your special someone, but for whatever reason, could not. In other words, when’s the last time you [...]
How much affection is appropriate in public? “Holding hands and hugging is ok,” said a corporate attorney eating brunch at the Catalina bar last Sunday. “Even kissing is fine, but definitely no tongue. Groping and tonguing in public is gross.” The SWOOP* driver who gave us a free ride home agreed. He told me that [...]
Who told you about the birds and the bees? Whoever it was, you owe them a huge hug. If you read about sex, reproduction, and protection in a book, send an e-mail to the author — and most important, pick up another copy for your kids. Because Florida teens, who consistently achieve one of the [...]
